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don't all problems start like that lol :)
So i've never really had a bf before, mostly cuz i never found anyone i really liked that much, but this guy, he's just amazing...he's funny and sweet and just plain nice.....i won't gush about him too much lol
So he hangs around w/my group of friends and we're friends but i want to be more than that w/o like totally making everything all akward and stuff....
but also idk if he's even interested, i know this sounds retarded but we like smile at eachother and i always look him in the eyes, (i don't ussually look ppl in the eyes i'm just wierd that way lol)
but then there's this other friend who he's closer too, and they joke around that they're going to homecoming together, mostly to annoy this other guy (it's an inside joke)
so yea....idk....help...please....thankyou.... :)
if i were you i would just try to talk to him when no one else is around or if your scared text him i would be freaking out to tell a guy my feelings for him in person.....and the whole joke thing if its just to annoy another guy and their not serious chill out and not worry about it =]
i've dated one of my best friends and it was soooooo weird i was like freaking out in the hallway and i didnt want to talk or see him then we were walking down the hall together and it was soooooo weird. we broke up the next day......but we're still tight =]
<3steph<3
oh my gosh, I'm in the exact same situation as you, except the friends part...the guy in my situation isn't friends with a lot of my friends, and I'm not close friends with him, but we smile across the room too, etc.
I talked to one of my friends about him and asked her what you're asking now, and she said to just try my hardest to get closer too him..(a little flirting never hurt anybody) Just be yourself, and try to talk to him alone, like the person above me said, and maybe it could happen sometime..
Thanks guys :)
I don't think i'm gonna just go up and have this serious convo w.him....i think i'm just gonna let our friendship grow, ya know?
I know what you mean, you really don't just go up to someone and get into some really deep convo...letting the friendship grow sounds like a good idea
Can I ask you for some advice now? I've never had a bf either but I really want to know some tips on how to sort of become friends with this guy...if that's the way to word it. Because he's only friends with only one of my friends..., and he's only in one of my classes. I also don't have that many guy friends so I was wondering if you had any tips for me since you mentioned your guy was already your friend.
Also srry I used the word "friend, and "guy" way too much in that =)
