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I need advice from teen parents. My friend is pregnant at the young age of 13! We are not sure if she is really pregnant though. She has a lot of the symtoms. If any of you are young parents i need advice for her. she took three test and 2 came out positive!! Also, everyone keep her in your prayers she needs it.
okay im not a teen parent(i have a purity ring) but i do have some advice. She needs to go see a doctor and go tell her parents. they will be mad. there's no stopping that. but think about it. If you were a parent and your daughter was pregnent, you would be mad. but then they will get over it and help out. and 13? that's kinda scary. I'm 12 and 3/4 so that's kinda scary. But tell her do NOT get an abortion if she is preggo. Because the baby can feel pain. it deserves to live just like you and me. Abortion is just like taking a baby and putting a gun to it's head and pulling the trigger. Sounds cruel, huh? Well thats basically what abortion is. She could pull a juno and give the baby to some other parents who will care for it. Or the obviouse which is raise the child. I'm sorry about your friend. But this might sound kind of mean but she should've known. She shouldve said to stop. You're friend is in my prayers. I hope that everything turns out okay. And don't abandon her. Right now, she really needs someone to turn to. And tell the father of the baby. Hope ive helped! :D
i'm not a teen parent either, [deciding about a purity ring atm] but 13 gosh thats young. but if she is, she is. no amount of shouting and being mad can change it. but tell her not to freak out, pregnancy tests are never 100% reliable unless done by a doctor. so she needs to tell her parents there may be a posibility then go see a doctor. but stay by her side and support her, i hope everything turns out okay :)
i was preg at 14 and lets just leave it as im not a teen mam now. i didnt abort it but i dont want to go into shizzzzzzz.
anyway. it was a really hard time for me and i tried to ignore it and hoped it would just go away and it just got worse. she needs to decide what she wants to do now. whether its abort it, keep it, or put it up for adoption, of whatever she wants to do. but before that she needs to see a doctor just to be sure because you cant be one hundred percent sure till you see a doctor.
when did she find out? i hope everythings alright in the end.
Alright well I think I can be some help. At school I was in an all pregnant girls class. They were from age 13 -18. I was in it because I was the teachers helper. Its hard. I was good friends with a lot of the girls. They were all scared I mean its a scary thing but tell her she needs to tell her parents. and she needs to see a dr.
I had a pregnancy scare and now i vowed never to have sex again till marraige cuz it is really scary going through it.
my sister just had a baby and shes 18. its so hard with me, my mom, and my sis taking care of it. but the baby is sooo precious. im completely against abortion. and maybe try adoption if she doesnt want it. tell her..
hope this helps. PM me anytime
wrachelle
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i am not a teen mom ( i have a purity ring also) but tell her not to stress about it because pregnancy tests are never 100% correct...but tell her she needs to tell the baby's father and her parents because she cant hide it for very long and go see a doctor
I'm not a teen mom. Just tell her to tell her parents though. Yeah, she would be scared to see what her parents say but it's for the best. And 13?! thats very young considering i'm 12. I am against abortion, so if she doesnt want to take care of the baby, its best to put it for adoption.
