so 2 of my friends are trying to hook me up with one of my guy friends, alex, and i like him as a person, he is really funny and everything but im still stuck on kevin! my friends are really pressuring me and i usually dont do things just because other ppl want me to but uh im in love with kevin and they know that but i think they think its kinda a joke. i dont want to be like NO I WONT GO OUT WITH ALEX CAUSE I LOVE KEVIN JONAS! because i know i will probably never get to spend more than 10 minutes of my entire life with kevin....but im still stuck on him and i feel like going out with someone other than kevin is like abandoning him....its retarded ik. but idk what to do =/

Don't get pressured into anything. Just move on from kevin when you feel you can. you would be cheaping out alex if you went out with him but really still liked another guy. Don't worry about it keep with kevin until your ready to move on

i've done that before though.
don't let something great fall through your hands.
but if you don't like him like that, then whatever. :]